If you want to be truly successful in
how you achieve your goals, then you need to harbor the right habits and
attitudes that will keep you on track. There are a number of good traits you
have to keep for life to discover that more opportunities and good things are
bound to happen, if only you allow these. Here are some of the features that
great people had.
Being
Industrious
Hard work always pays off.
There is no single famous individual person in history who achieved several goals in life without working it off. Being industrious means working harder than anyone else, studying more than anyone else and even suffering more than anyone else. You have to understand the importance of delayed gratification as you work towards your ultimate goal. To begin hard work, you can begin by fixing your schedule, writing down tasks and functions of the day and finding the right people and resources that can assist you. Keep in mind that you have to be as independent as possible to finish more in the long term.
There is no single famous individual person in history who achieved several goals in life without working it off. Being industrious means working harder than anyone else, studying more than anyone else and even suffering more than anyone else. You have to understand the importance of delayed gratification as you work towards your ultimate goal. To begin hard work, you can begin by fixing your schedule, writing down tasks and functions of the day and finding the right people and resources that can assist you. Keep in mind that you have to be as independent as possible to finish more in the long term.
Discipline
and Consistency
Discipline is what separates the
leaders from the followers. If you truly want to make changes in your life, you
have to understand doing things even if you do not want to at times, and
maintaining excellent quality and optimum performance each time. Being
consistent is intertwined with patience, wherein you continue performing well,
regardless of the situations and hindrances, to render the results you want in
the end.
Discipline and consistency are also
interrelated, in the sense that discipline breeds consistency. If you continue
practicing good habits and sticking to the functions that lead to your main
goal, you will find it easier to do this as time passes. You will change as an
entire person and experience the opportunities that come with being dedicated.
Resilience
Problems are a part of every man's
life, but it is the resilient person who always prevails and achieves their
goals. You need to learn from your past mistakes and convert these into more
productive actions the next time. Learn to pick yourself up after each fall and
put in double effort to become better. Some of the most successful people, as
well as those who truly left a mark in history are known to have faced big
difficulties and resentment before they let others understand their own way of
doing things.
Optimism
You need to stay positive about your
situation, regardless of the problems that you face. It is vital that you stay
optimistic and always believe that you will get to your goal, no matter what.
If you tell yourself that you will reach it sooner, chances are you will. It
might help to believe in the powers of the Universal Law of Attraction which
draws opportunities toward you just the way you intend it to, and in the right
intensity as you desired.
Patience
Some goals are very big and will take
time to accomplish. Do not allow yourself to think that some goals are just too
huge to be possible. Be specific and set goals that are attainable to your
current situation and start working to achieve these. You can break it down
into smaller tasks that are much easier to do within the given timeframe that
you have.
The Right Way to Set and Achieve Your Goals
People set their goals differently,
depending on their current situation, resources, physical capacity and other
factors. You can, however, follow some guidelines to make sure that your goals
are credible and possible. Too many individuals set their goals too high
unknowingly, only to lose and get disappointed for life. Here are some tips for
you.
Being
Specific
Goals need to be specific, so that you
know which part of the process you're currently in and the particular ways on
how you will achieve it. Most people have goals to get promoted, get rich,
improve relationship and the like, but these are very vague and your mind can
become confused about what you truly mean. General descriptions usually do not
have boundaries, so you always leave room for mistakes and compromise. If you
want results that you can be proud of, be specific.
To be specific, you need to include
the full details. Write down something like, "I want to get $1 million by
October of this year." or "I need to become key supervisor of the
sales division by next week." or "I want my kids, Taylor and Chad, to
become best friends beginning tomorrow." Include the names, the position,
the amount, the date and everything else needed to train your mind to start
working towards that goal.
Being
Measurable
Goals need to be measurable so that
you can gauge how well you have done lately. To help measure your paths and
goals, you should include measurable details. For your job, you can include
details such as the number of hours you're working, the amount you're earning,
the staff you're handling, etc. For the goal of money, you can include details
such as the amount you want to have as a whole, the number of companies or
businesses you own, your contact persons, etc. Always have things and items to
be measured so you can understand how close you are to getting your goals. If
your goal is to earn $100,000 a month, then you know you're halfway there if
you're already earning $50,000 a month.
Being
Attainable and Realistic
Only set goals that can possibly be
accomplished. Some people set goals that are too high to reach, that they are
almost setting up things that are impossible. Make sure you only set objectives that you can
reach within a given amount of time, provided the current resources and
capabilities you have. Some examples of impossible goals are doubling your
salary overnight, getting a promotion higher than your boss's position, etc.
Some goals can be achieved faster compared to others if you have some strengths
and paths to back these up. Always include a strategic plan for big objectives.
Time-Bound
Set deadlines to achieve your goals or
else you'll never going to finish anything. Stay specific when setting
timelines and schedules. For example, indicate things like "To spend an
hour with my wife everyday starting tomorrow (indicate exact date and
year)". Setting the exact time and date will spur you to start working on
your goals, instead of putting it off for another available time. Some goals
can take years to accomplish so it is wiser to break these down into smaller
objectives, still complete with deadlines. You can finish everything in a
sequence to finally reach the biggest one.
Being able to maximize the usage of
your time is a vital skill in today's fast-paced society in which everything is
taking place at double-quick time.
Goal setting is an essential skill that
effectively helps to add hours to your work week, and is a very worthy skill to
master. The only hard part is in taking the first step and getting your first
goals written down on paper. After your first try, you will probably find it so
effective that you will start wondering how you managed to surviving so long
without written goals!
Goal setting gives you a sense of
direction, a road map that points you to exactly where you want to be, without
needing to meander through the wilderness and wasting a lot of time in the
process.
According to a survey at Yale
University in 1953, only 3% of the graduating class had written goals. Twenty
years later, it was found that the 3% who had written goals had amassed a net
worth greater than that of the other 97% combined!
This is concrete evidence that
goal-setting on paper truly works, and should be carried out by everyone,
especially since it is so easy.
However, one critical point to take
note of is to set realistic goals. A goal to earn a million dollars online when
you have yet to make your first dollar will only end up frustrating yourself
and making you feel extremely useless. At the same time, a goal should not be
so mundane that it does not excite you at all.
Look at someone you know and admire
who has achieved what you hope to achieve, and strive to beat him at that. Once
that is accomplished, look for someone of a higher standard, and repeat the
process until you reach your definition of success. DO not be afraid of writing
your goals down, as you can always go back to change them later on.
Of course, you should always strive to
stick to your goals, but being realistic is also extremely important, and if
there is a need to make any changes, do not be afraid to do so.
So go forth and add goal setting to
your arsenal of weapons, and watch hours magically sprout into your workweek!
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